* on the hottest, muggiest, day of the year is when your kids want to snuggle with you?
* the moment you start cutting an onion, your husband calls your from the bathroom because he forgot to grab a towel...and there he stands dripping wet.
* the moment you get on the phone, the kids want to play with you?
*when you schedule time to play with the kids, the response is "Not right now..."
*so basically...no one really needs anything until you start a project, get on the phone, or sit down with a cup of coffee...